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• Do, Dump or Marry? Thomas Jane
  Now, before you go and choose "Do" automatically because Thomas Jane stars in HBO's Hung, about a well-hung man who decides to work as a male escort, just focus on his visible hotness. What will it be - do, dump or marry? Do, Dump or Marry? Thomas Jane Do Dump Marry
• Grab Bag: Craigslist Doesn't Disappoint
  What would we do without Craigslist? - The Frisky Why one woman quit lookin' for love online. - Lemondrop What are Michael Jackson's greatest love songs? - Your Tango Performance artist shocks apathetic Americans out of stupor. - The Onion Female confessional journalism and self-hate. - Jezebel Girlfriend just can't get past his porn. - Em & Lo 3 dating excuses; do you buy this? - Smitten
• Oh Snap! It's Finally OK to Be Gay in India
  While gay Americans fight for marriage rights, gay people in India are just winning the right to be homosexual. Today the high court in New Delhi overruled colonial-era legislation that criminalized homosexuality. Britain decriminalized homosexual acts in 1967, but its former colonies, including Malaysia, Singapore, and Zimbabwe still have strict laws against homosexual relations. View 10 Photos ›
• Do You Identify as Bisexual?
  Woody Allen once joked that being bisexual doubled your chances of getting a date on Saturday night. Part of the problem bisexuals have is that lots of people (even in the queer community) don't take bisexuality all that seriously. It's a phase, some say; just choose already, command others. What does it mean to choose a sexual identity that is fluid and nonfixed, something that contradicts the idea of identity itself? According to researcher Lisa Diamond, an associate professor of psychology and gender studies at the University of Utah who followed 79 nonheterosexual women for a decade, a woman's desire for both sexes endures throughout the years. "These findings are therefore more consistent with the model of bisexuality as a stable identity," she argues, "than a transitional stage." (Granted, Diamond had a small pool of research subjects, and they were disproportionately white and middle class.) There's no question that we're living in a time when young women feel less of a stigma in desiring women or having sex with them, but for some it is just a phase of faux-mosexuality. Do you identify as bisexual? (Notice you don't get a "not sure" option!) Source Do You Identify as Bisexual? Yes No
• Do Tell: What Traits Do You Find Attractive?
  We women have distinctive tastes. Unlike men, women have varying opinions on what is attractive. A study we discussed earlier this week asked people to rate pictures based on attractiveness. When heterosexual men looked at photos of women, they generally agreed who was hot and who was not, typically favoring "seductive and thin women." Homosexual men agreed on male attractiveness, too. But the women in the study did not hold consistent opinions. When showed a photo, one woman would find the person attractive, while another would find the same person unattractive. I've definitely noticed a difference in taste among my female friends. In college, my girlfriends and I would joke that we never had to worry about fighting over guys because we all had different types. Since we all seem to hold different opinions, I'm dying to know yours: what traits do you find attractive?
• Find Out Who's Having the Best Sex
  Hoping to discover a need for their new vibrators, Trojan condoms asked a market research company to conduct a survey about sexual satisfaction in America. By asking 1,000 adults in 10 different cities, the survey set out to find out which city has the most sex and which city has the best sex. Test your instincts and find out if you know who's having good sex and who's not getting any! Take the quiz
• Artist Tracey Emin: "It Was Always About Sex, Not Money"
  Writers and artists in the “confessional” mode are often accused of being narcissistic and self-indulgent. This may be true for certain male memoirists like James Frey (A Million Little Pieces), but I think we so rarely get accounts of women’s real lives that, self-indulgent or not, I welcome art and writing by women that gives me a window into their experience. Take Tracey Emin, an English multimedia artist who often incorporates details about her sex life into her work. Her exhibit “Those Who Suffer Love” in London at White Cube ends in a few days, and for those of us who can’t be there to see her envelope-pushing work, we can take a look at what’s in the exhibit, as well as work that made her famous. View Slideshow ›

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• Hugh Grant: Make-Out Champ
  You know what we like hearing about? People who still got it and it looks like Hugh Grant still has IT. First of all, the New York Post's sixth page reports that Hugh Grant was spotted in the company of Drew Barrymore a few days ago (Monday, February 9th). They were ... Click on the headline to read the full text of this article.
• Mickey Rourke Courting Courtney Love?
  Is the whole world on crazy pills? Are we really allowing Mickey Rourke and Courtney Love the chance to date, mate and, possibly, procreate? Are we the only ones who think this is a bad idea? Seriously? According to Celebuzz, the former hunka-hunka burnin' love and current cautionary tale turned... Click on the headline to read the full text of this article.
• Roberto Alomar Gets Sued Over AIDS Scare
  Most of you know Roberto Alomar as a slick-fielding, clutch and power-hitting second baseman who played for the Padres, Blue Jays, Orioles, Indians, White Sox, Mets, and Diamondbacks. But Ilya Dall, an ex-girlfriend, claims that he's a guy who boned her bareback while he had the AIDS (Acquired... Click on the headline to read the full text of this article.
• Will Leo DiCaprio & Bar Refaeli Marry Now?
  Over the past couple of years, Leonardo DiCaprio has been seeing Bar Refaeli here and there. It's fair to say that he's been on her and off her regularly (wait for it). There was even a rumor that they were to be wed in Israel (clearly in a civil ceremony). ... Click on the headline to read the full text of this article.
• Lindsay Price & Josh Radnor: Newish Couple
  You know the show How I Met Your Mother (HIMYM)? It's good, right? You know the main character, not Jason Segel or Neil Patrick Harris' characters, the know-it-all, Ted Mosby (played by Josh Radnor). Yeah, that guy is pretty excellent, right? According to CelebAmour, old boy is dating that one ... Click on the headline to read the full text of this article.
• MIA May Be Pregnant
  Did you see that crazy outfit that MIA wore to the Grammys? That was weird. It was like smuggling a baseball in a cocktail napkin. Did you see the dress she wore to perform "Paper Planes"/ "Swagga Like Us"? That was weird. It was like a black and white ladybug ... Click on the headline to read the full text of this article.
• Paul Walker Engaged To A College Student?
  The man known as Piz Wiz (no one calls him that) appears to be off of the market, ladies. Paul Walker has become engaged to a woman named Jasmine Pilchard Gosnell per some reports. Be careful though, the Huffington Post (or Huff Po as the hipsters refer to her) tells ... Click on the headline to read the full text of this article.
• Fringe Stars Get Secretly Married
  We know. You're thinking, "OMG. Joshua Jackson got married. Wait wasn't he dating that Diane Krueger?" Yes, he is dating Helen of Troy Diane Krueger and they did not marry recently. And she's not even on that show, silly. The secret couple from Fringe, according to Celebutopia, is Anna Torv and ... Click on the headline to read the full text of this article.
• Spencer & Heidi To Get “Divorced”?
  Word Association… GO: Utter Devotion? Best Friend And Lover? Deserve Each Other? A Real Hoot? New Hollywood royalty? Beautiful on the inside and outside? If your response to all of those word associations was "Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt" then you are a big, crazy fan. And we have bad news ... Click on the headline to read the full text of this article.

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